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It’s
wedding season!
When the sun
shines and the flowers bloom and our hearts sing out the
mating songs of our species.
The delight of courtship turns so well into the
rightness of Marriage, that remarkable journey that
encompasses the grand adventure of life partnership; a
phenomenon that rests outside the romantic notions and
fantasies of falling in love. It is the maturation of
two spirits willing to travel within the realm of human
existence and realize their highest aims and
aspirations, do their highest good and fulfill their
destiny and purpose with another at their side.
Four
Vital Attributes for an Ideal Wedding Event
The four vital attributes for an ideal wedding event and
successful marriage are Compatibility, Equality,
Auspicious Date and Ceremony (the Ritual of the Words
you speak as you take your vows).
Your
primary attribute of successful marriage is
Compatibility. To discern its presence, closely examine
and self investigate your own life intentions. That’s
the direction, aim or purpose that emerges from deep
within you. The thriving spirit behind your physical
livelihood. Take some time and write them down, because
being chosen or choosing an ideal mate depends on common
passions. You’ll see they are so alive with your passion
that you never forget them. Establish your own list of
Life intentions starting with “to be”. For example, to
be a life partner, a great parent, a recognized artist,
a kind friend, etc. It’s those intentions that really
light up the lantern of your heart!
Secondly, Equality sets the stage for an ideal
relationship. Marriage that is egalitarian by nature (
as opposed to one of domination of earlier generations)
creates an atmosphere of energetic equality where both
partners honor each other’s true natures and encourage
the unfolding and flowering of their being and their
beauty. Now that’s something with which to toast the
future!
The third
element is comprised of choosing an Ideal Date for your
wedding. That choice sets the foundation for a thriving
and bountiful partnership. The day you marry carries an
energetic force field that will remain within the frame
of your marriage for all of its existence!
Search out
a date that has auspicious planetary aspects, such as
trines and sextiles, those elements that signal harmony
and grace, that bring opportunity and/or combine with
ease. These influences strengthen the force field of
interacting planets and promise a positive lifetime
commitment. Negative heavenly influences such as
oppositions and squares enhance struggles or act at
cross purposes. These aspects create stress and
obstacles and set the stage for a volatile, unhappy and
challenging partnership.
Last, but not least, the Ceremony itself must be special
and memorable. Think deep on your promises, as the power
of the great words you profess during that sacred ritual
is of particular significance and will forever be a oral
touchstone to the love and commitment into which you
enter.
In
marriage, you set aside your system of origin, and lend
yourself to designing a new system of creation with your
chosen mate at your side. During Ceremony you make your
vows and intentions known before witnesses. And sure
enough, what you forget, they will indeed help you
remember!
With these
four attributes present during this remarkable time in
your life, you can’t help but create a more flourishing
lifestyle filled with love, adventure and fertility of
purpose.
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